Cornerstone Discipleship The 21 Irrefutable Laws of Leadership

A study of John C. Maxwell, read beside Scripture

The 21 Irrefutable Laws of Leadership

Introduction

Leadership can be learned

Maxwell's claim is simple: everything rises and falls on leadership, and leadership can be learned. He gathers what he has seen over decades into 21 laws. Some are about who you are, some about how you work with people, and some about how you build something that outlasts you.

We'll read him as Christian men who lead at work, at church and at home. Each law is paired with a story from Scripture. The Bible had most of these patterns first, and it shows what leadership is for: the good of others and the glory of God, not the rise of the leader.

Maxwell Plain type is Maxwell’s teaching, in our words.

Cornerstone Green marks and the Cornerstone study card are ours: Scripture, the foundation and the questions.

Law 1 of 21

The Law of the Lid

However hard your people work, they won't rise far above the level of the one who leads them.

From Maxwell’s book

Talent and hard work only go so far. The higher your leadership ability, the higher the lid on your team's results. Raise the leader and you raise the lid for everyone under him.

In the book: The McDonald brothers built a great restaurant. Ray Kroc's leadership built the company.

The story · Exod. 18:13-27

Moses and Jethro

Moses judged every dispute himself from morning to evening. His father-in-law told him it would wear out both him and the people. Moses listened, appointed capable men, and the whole nation moved faster.

“What you are doing is not good. You and the people with you will certainly wear yourselves out.”

Exod. 18:17-18 · ESV
12345678910room theynever reachLid at 4Lid at 8MOSES AND JETHRO · EXOD. 18Same people, different leaderLid at 4Moses hears every case himself,from morning till evening.The thing is too heavy for you.EXOD. 18:13-18Lid at 8He takes the counsel and sets able menover thousands, hundreds, fifties, tens.EXOD. 18:21-26Nothing grows past the lid. Raise the leader.

Law 2 of 21

The Law of Influence

Leading is moving people. If no one is moving with you, a title doesn't make you a leader.

From Maxwell’s book

Maxwell boils leadership down to influence. Position, knowledge and charisma can help, but none of them is the thing itself. The test is simple: is anyone following?

In the book: Mother Teresa held no office, yet she moved the most powerful people in Washington.

The story · Dan. 6:1-5

Daniel in Babylon

Daniel was a captive with no army and no family name. He served three kings. His rivals searched his record and found nothing, so they went after his faith. His influence came from his character, not his rank.

“Daniel became distinguished above all the other high officials and satraps, because an excellent spirit was in him.”

Dan. 6:3 · ESV
Daniela captive, no titleNebuchadnezzarruler over thewhole provinceDAN. 2:48Belshazzarthird ruler inthe kingdomDAN. 5:29Dariusplanned to set him over the kingdomDAN. 6:3DANIEL IN BABYLONOne captive, three kings,two empires.DAN. 6:4No error or faultwas found in him.Position is where the stone lands.Influence is how far the rings go.

Law 3 of 21

The Law of Process

Nobody becomes a leader in a moment. It's built in small, unseen days, over years.

From Maxwell’s book

Leaders are learners, and growth is slow and steady. Maxwell's habit is simple: make one small improvement every day. What you do daily, over years, decides who you are when it counts.

In the book: Theodore Roosevelt built himself from a sickly boy into a man of great strength and courage, one day at a time.

The story · 1 Sam. 16:11; 17:34-37; 2 Sam. 5:4

David in the fields

David was anointed as a boy, then went back to the sheep. There the Lord delivered him from the lion and the bear, long before Goliath. He served years under Saul before he wore a crown. He became king at thirty.

“With upright heart he shepherded them and guided them with his skillful hand.”

Ps. 78:72 · ESV
The fieldsthe LORD delivered him1 SAM. 17:34-37Anointedthen back to the sheep1 SAM. 16:13, 19Goliaththe same LORD again1 SAM. 17:37, 47Years under Saulserving, then running1 SAM. 18-31King of Judahat thirty, in Hebron2 SAM. 2:4; 5:4King of all Israelseven and a half years on2 SAM. 5:5DAVID: BUILT ONE RING A YEARNarrow rings are the hard years.The hidden years made the king.He took him from the sheepfolds.PS. 78:70

Law 4 of 21

The Law of Navigation

Steering is easy once the course is set. The leader's job is to see the whole trip before it starts.

From Maxwell’s book

Navigators see the whole trip before it starts. They draw on past experience, listen to others, count the cost and plan for trouble. Then they make the call and own it.

In the book: Roald Amundsen planned his way to the South Pole and brought every man home. Robert Scott's team did not return.

The story · Neh. 1-6

Nehemiah rides at night

Nehemiah prayed for months before he spoke. In Jerusalem he inspected the broken walls at night, told almost no one, then laid out the plan. The wall was finished in fifty-two days.

“I arose in the night, I and a few men with me. And I told no one what my God had put into my heart to do.”

Neh. 2:12 · ESV
311692130165122226413132127111481971Praymonths before he spokeNEH. 1:4; 2:1-42Ask the kingletters, and timber for the gatesNEH. 2:4-83Inspect by nighta few men, told no oneNEH. 2:12-154Cast the vision“Let us rise up and build.”NEH. 2:17-185Give every family a parteach family, its own sectionNEH. 36The wall finishedin fifty-two daysNEH. 6:15Nehemiah’s courseNEH. 1-6N

Law 5 of 21

The Law of Addition

A leader's worth is counted in the people he leaves better off.

From Maxwell’s book

The question isn't how far ahead you get. It's how many people are better off because you lead. Leaders who add value start by valuing people and knowing what matters to them.

The story · John 13:1-17

The towel and the basin

On the night before the cross, Jesus rose from supper, tied a towel around His waist and washed His disciples' feet. It was a slave's job. He told them to do the same for one another.

“If I then, your Lord and Teacher, have washed your feet, you also ought to wash one another's feet.”

John 13:14 · ESV
1Value peopleHe loved his ownto the end.JOHN 13:12Know what mattersLearn the need beforeyou meet it.3Serve thatHe took the towel andpoured the water himself.JOHN 13:4-54Keep no scoreHe washed the feet ofthe man who would betray him.JOHN 13:2, 10-11THE TOWEL AND THE BASINLeave every person better than you found him.

Law 6 of 21

The Law of Solid Ground

Every other part of leading stands on one thing: whether people can trust you.

From Maxwell’s book

Trust is what people lean on when things go wrong. Maxwell says leaders build it three ways: competence, connection and character, and character matters most. A leader can't keep breaking trust and keep his influence.

In the book: Maxwell points to Robert McNamara and Vietnam: when the public stopped trusting its leaders, their influence collapsed.

The story · 1 Sam. 12:1-5

Samuel's farewell

Old Samuel stood before the whole nation and asked if he had ever taken anyone's ox or donkey, cheated anyone or taken a bribe. Nobody could name one thing.

“Whose ox have I taken? Or whose donkey have I taken? Or whom have I defrauded?”

1 Sam. 12:3 · ESV
TWO BUILDERS, ONE STORMMATT. 7:24-27FLOODOn the rockhears and doesOn the sandhears and does notCompetenceConnectionCharactermatters mostTalent, charm, image“Great was the fall of it”MATT. 7:27Samuel's test, at the end of a life: “Whose ox have I taken?” Nobody could name one thing.1 SAM. 12:3

Law 7 of 21

The Law of Respect

Over time, people drift toward the strongest leader in the room, whatever the org chart says.

From Maxwell’s book

Respect is earned, not demanded. People watch your character, your courage, your record and how you treat them. Over time they drift toward the strongest leader in the room.

In the book: Harriet Tubman had no title and no education, yet people followed her through danger again and again.

The story · Exod. 17; 24; Num. 14; Josh. 1

Joshua takes command

Joshua fought Israel's first battle, went up the mountain with Moses and stood firm when ten spies gave a bad report. After forty years at Moses' side, the tribes followed him without a question.

“Just as we obeyed Moses in all things, so we will obey you.”

Josh. 1:17 · ESV
THE GREAT SEAEGYPTCANAANWILDERNESSEDOMRED SEA38 YEARSDEUT. 2:14RephidimWins the first battleYEAR 1 · EXOD. 17:9-13Mount SinaiGoes up with MosesEXOD. 24:13KadeshThe faithful spy, with CalebYEAR 2 · NUM. 14:6-9Plains of MoabCommissioned before IsraelYEAR 40 · DEUT. 31:7The Jordan“We will obey you”JOSH. 1:16-17NFORTY YEARS OF EARNING ITJOSHUA, FROM EGYPT TO THE JORDANForty years at Moses' side.When his time came, nobodyhad to be told to follow.

Law 8 of 21

The Law of Intuition

A leader reads the room: morale, momentum and timing that others don't notice.

From Maxwell’s book

Leaders read situations: people, morale, momentum, timing and trends. Some intuition is gift, but most is built by experience and attention. They sense what others miss.

The story · 1 Chron. 12:23-40

The men of Issachar

When the tribes gathered to make David king, most sent warriors by the thousand. From Issachar came men who understood the times and knew what Israel should do.

“Of Issachar, men who had understanding of the times, to know what Israel ought to do.”

1 Chron. 12:32 · ESV
WHAT A LEADER READSSEENSENSEDmost of itWhat people sayThe numbersMoralehow hearts really areMomentumwhich way things are movingTrustwhat they will give youTimingwhen to move, and when to waitThe men of Issachar“Understanding of the times,to know what Israelought to do”1 CHRON. 12:32Numbers tell you what happened.Reading the room tells youwhat is about to.

Law 9 of 21

The Law of Magnetism

The people you draw will look a lot like you, strengths and weaknesses both.

From Maxwell’s book

Teams tend to look like their leader: attitude, values, energy, even weaknesses. If you want better people around you, become a better leader first.

The story · 1 Sam. 22:1-2; 2 Sam. 23:8-39

The cave of Adullam

Hiding from Saul, David drew about four hundred men who were in distress, in debt and bitter in soul. Years later they were his mighty men. They became like the man they followed.

“Everyone who was in distress, and everyone who was in debt, and everyone who was bitter in soul, gathered to him.”

1 Sam. 22:2 · ESV
WHO YOU ARE IS WHO YOU DRAW, AND WHO THEY BECOMEDavidDRAWN INIn distressIn debtBitter in soulAbout four hundred men1 SAM. 22:1-2The cave of Adullamwhere David hid from SaulSHAPED INTOHis mighty men2 SAM. 23:8-39They became likethe man they followed.

Law 10 of 21

The Law of Connection

Care comes before commands. People won't follow direction from someone who doesn't know them.

From Maxwell’s book

People need to know you care before they will follow your direction. Connection is the leader's job, not the follower's. The leader goes first, one person at a time.

The story · John 4:1-42

The woman at the well

Jesus sat by a well at noon and asked a Samaritan woman for a drink. He crossed every line of His day, offered her living water and named her story without contempt. She ran to her town, and many believed.

“Come, see a man who told me all that I ever did. Can this be the Christ?”

John 4:29 · ESV
HEART BEFORE HANDJOHN 4:1-42living water“The wellis deep”JOHN 4:11her jar, left behindJOHN 4:281Goes to herthrough Samaria, at noonJOHN 4:4-62Asks for a drinkHe takes the lower placeJOHN 4:73Offers living watera gift she didn't know to ask forJOHN 4:10-144Knows her storyall of it, and staysJOHN 4:16-185She runs to town“Come, see a man”JOHN 4:28-296Many believeone woman, then a townJOHN 4:39-42

Law 11 of 21

The Law of the Inner Circle

How far a leader goes depends on the handful of people nearest him.

From Maxwell’s book

Nobody does anything great alone. Choose the people nearest you on purpose, for character, competence and loyalty, and invest most in the few.

The story · Mark 5:37; 9:2; 14:33

Peter, James and John

Jesus had crowds, then seventy-two, then twelve. He took three into His most important moments: a dead girl raised, the mountain of transfiguration and the garden before the cross.

“Jesus took with him Peter and James and John, and led them up a high mountain by themselves.”

Mark 9:2 · ESV
manyThe crowdsFollowed Him from Galilee to JudeaMATT. 4:2572The seventy-twoSent ahead of Him, two by twoLUKE 10:112The TwelveAppointed to be with HimMARK 3:143Peter, James and JohnThe raised girl, the mountain, the gardenMARK 5:37; 9:2; 14:33HOW JESUS SPENT HIMSELFAccess narrows as trust deepens.

Law 12 of 21

The Law of Empowerment

Giving away authority takes security. Insecure men hold on to everything.

From Maxwell’s book

Secure leaders give away authority and celebrate others' wins. Maxwell names three things that keep leaders from empowering others: fear of losing their place, resistance to change and low self-worth.

In the book: Henry Ford would not let others lead, not even his son, and his company paid for it.

The story · Luke 10:1-20

Sending the seventy-two

Jesus trained seventy-two followers, gave them clear instructions and sent them in pairs ahead of Him. They came back amazed at what God had done through them, and He rejoiced with them.

“The Lord appointed seventy-two others and sent them on ahead of him, two by two.”

Luke 10:1 · ESV
AppointLUKE 10:1InstructLUKE 10:2-12Send in pairsLUKE 10:1, 3Return with joyLUKE 10:17RejoiceLUKE 10:21SEVENTY-TWO, SENT TWO BY TWOWHAT KEEPS A MAN HOLDING THE KEYFear of losing his placeIf they do it well, where does that leave me?Resistance to changeIt has always worked this way.Low self-worthMy value is in being needed.Jesus gave the work away, then rejoicedwhen it came back done (Luke 10:17-21).

Law 13 of 21

The Law of the Picture

Your people copy what they watch you do, not what they hear you say.

From Maxwell’s book

Your example teaches more than your words. Leaders show the vision and the values in how they live, especially under pressure.

The story · 1 Cor. 11:1; 1 Thess. 1:6-7

Imitate me

Paul told the churches to imitate him as he imitated Christ. He had lived among them, worked with his hands and suffered in front of them. Soon the Thessalonians became the example for others.

“Be imitators of me, as I am of Christ.”

1 Cor. 11:1 · ESV
ChristWalked it first1 PET. 2:21Paul“Be imitators of me,as I am of Christ”1 COR. 11:1The ThessaloniansImitators of usand of the Lord1 THESS. 1:6Macedonia, AchaiaSet as an exampleto every believer there1 THESS. 1:7Your familyWatchingwhere you stepEACH ONE WALKS INSIDE THE STEPS OF THE ONE AHEADPeople do what they see.

Law 14 of 21

The Law of Buy-In

People sign on to the man before they sign on to the plan.

From Maxwell’s book

A great vision from an untrusted leader goes nowhere. People have to trust you before they commit to your plan, so buy-in is earned long before you ask for it.

In the book: Gandhi's followers trusted the man first, then followed his way of peaceful resistance.

The story · Neh. 2:17-18

Let us rise and build

Nehemiah told Jerusalem's leaders how God's hand had been on him and what the king had said. They had watched him, and they believed him. They answered, "Let us rise up and build."

“And they said, "Let us rise up and build." So they strengthened their hands for the good work.”

Neh. 2:18 · ESV
He prayed firstNEH. 1:4He came with theking’s lettersNEH. 2:7-9He saw the ruinshimselfNEH. 2:12-15He named theirshared troubleNEH. 2:17He told them ofGod’s handNEH. 2:18THE LEADERNehemiahTHE VISION“Let us rise upand build.”NEH. 2:18PEOPLE CROSS TO THE PLAN ON TRUST IN THE MANEvery plank is something they watched him do.

Law 15 of 21

The Law of Victory

When the team is losing, the leader looks for another way to win.

From Maxwell’s book

Leaders don't accept defeat easily. They unite the team around one goal, keep people committed and look for another way when the obvious one fails.

In the book: Winston Churchill refused to accept defeat when Britain stood alone.

The story · 1 Sam. 17

David and Goliath

For forty days Israel's army listened to a giant defy the living God. A youth bringing food to his brothers went out with a sling and five stones and told Goliath why he came: "that all the earth may know that there is a God in Israel." The Lord won that day, not the boy.

“For the battle is the LORD's, and he will give you into our hand.”

1 Sam. 17:47 · ESV
One stone1 SAM. 17:49Five smooth stones1 SAM. 17:40WHAT THE ARMY SAWA giant, six cubits and a span1 SAM. 17:4Forty days of taunts1 SAM. 17:16Dismayed and greatly afraid1 SAM. 17:11WHAT DAVID SAWThe living God, defied1 SAM. 17:26, 36The LORD who delivered him1 SAM. 17:37“The battle is the LORD’s”1 SAM. 17:45-47THE VALLEY OF ELAH · 1 SAM. 17:2-3SAME VALLEY, TWO WAYS OF SEEING

Law 16 of 21

The Law of the Big Mo

Once a team is moving, small problems shrink. Starting that movement is the leader's job.

From Maxwell’s book

With momentum, problems look smaller and people perform better. Leaders have to start it: with a clear vision, a team pulling together, real enthusiasm and small wins celebrated along the way.

In the book: Jaime Escalante built such momentum in a struggling Los Angeles school that his students passed calculus exams no one expected them to pass.

The story · Acts 1:15; 2:41; 4:4; 6:7

The early church

The church began with about 120 in a room. On one day 3,000 were added, then the men alone numbered about 5,000, then the disciples multiplied greatly. Luke keeps stopping to count.

“And the Lord added to their number day by day those who were being saved.”

Acts 2:47 · ESV
LUKE KEEPS COUNTINGAbout 120in one roomACTS 1:153,000 addedin one dayACTS 2:41About 5,000 menthe men aloneACTS 4:4Multiplied greatlyLuke stops countingACTS 6:7Each bead drawn to the size of Luke's count.A LEADER STARTS ITVisionpeople see where it goesTeamworkeveryone pulls one wayEnthusiasmit spreads from the topSmall winsnamed and celebrated

Law 17 of 21

The Law of Priorities

Being busy is not the same as getting the right things done.

From Maxwell’s book

Busy isn't the same as productive. Maxwell leans on the 80/20 principle: the top 20 percent of your priorities produce 80 percent of your results, so give your best to those and hand off the rest. Three questions sort them: what is required of me, what gives the greatest return and what gives the greatest reward.

The story · Acts 6:1-7

The apostles choose

Widows were being overlooked in the daily food. The apostles chose seven trusted men to handle it so they could stay on prayer and the Word. The church grew.

“But we will devote ourselves to prayer and to the ministry of the word.”

Acts 6:4 · ESV
THE 80/20 PRINCIPLEYOUR PRIORITIESYOUR RESULTSThe vital 20%give them your bestThe other 80%hand off what you canTHREE QUESTIONS SORT THEMWhat is required of me?What gives the greatest return?What gives the greatest reward?80% of the fruitcomes from the vital few20%from all the restTHE APOSTLESThey keptPrayer and the Wordtheir vital fewThey handed offServing tablesto seven chosen menThe fruitThe word increasedACTS 6:2-4, 7

Law 18 of 21

The Law of Sacrifice

Every step up in leadership costs something you have to give up.

From Maxwell’s book

There is no success without sacrifice. Leaders give up freedom to take on responsibility, and the higher you go the more it costs. What got you here won't keep you here.

In the book: Martin Luther King Jr. was jailed, threatened and finally killed for the cause he led.

The story · Phil. 2:5-11

He emptied himself

The Son of God set aside His glory, took the form of a servant and obeyed all the way to the cross. Therefore God highly exalted Him. Paul tells the church to have the same mind.

“But emptied himself, by taking the form of a servant.”

Phil. 2:7 · ESV
DOWN, THEN UP: PHILIPPIANS 2:6-11Equal with GodPHIL. 2:6Emptied HimselfPHIL. 2:7A servantPHIL. 2:7Made like menPHIL. 2:7Obedient to deathPHIL. 2:8Even the crossPHIL. 2:8Highly exaltedPHIL. 2:9The name above every namePHIL. 2:9Every knee will bowPHIL. 2:10-11He humbled himselfTherefore God has highly exalted himA leader goes down first.He gives up freedomto take on responsibility.HAVE THIS MIND, PHIL. 2:5

Law 19 of 21

The Law of Timing

A good decision at the wrong moment can fail as badly as a bad one.

From Maxwell’s book

Maxwell sets the move against the moment. Wrong move at the wrong moment: disaster. Right move at the wrong moment: people resist. Wrong move at the right moment: a mistake. Only the right move at the right moment succeeds.

In the book: Rudy Giuliani led New York at the right moment after September 11.

The story · Esth. 4-5

For such a time as this

Esther had a plan to save her people and did not rush it. She fasted three days, held one banquet and waited, then made her request at the second.

“And who knows whether you have not come to the kingdom for such a time as this?”

Esth. 4:14 · ESV
ESTHER WAITS FOR THE MOMENT1Fast three daysESTH. 4:162First banquet: she waitsESTH. 5:4-83Second banquet: she asksESTH. 7:1-6for such a timeas thisESTH. 4:14Laid down in order, the first at the bottomACTION AND TIMINGWRONG MOMENTRIGHT MOMENTRIGHT MOVEWRONG MOVEResistedSucceedsDisasterA mistakeEsther had the right move. She alsowaited for the right moment to make it.

Law 20 of 21

The Law of Explosive Growth

Train followers and you add. Train leaders and you multiply.

From Maxwell’s book

Leaders who develop followers grow their organization one person at a time. Leaders who develop leaders multiply it. Training leaders is slower at first and far faster later.

The story · 2 Tim. 2:1-2

Four generations

Near the end of his life Paul didn't tell Timothy to gather a crowd. He told him to entrust the truth to faithful men who would teach others. One verse holds four generations of leaders.

“What you have heard from me... entrust to faithful men, who will be able to teach others also.”

2 Tim. 2:2 · ESV
ADDING FOLLOWERS OR MULTIPLYING LEADERSPaulGENERATION 11TimothyGENERATION 22Faithful menGENERATION 34OthersGENERATION 48LEADERS1234ADDINGIf each man trains two faithful men2 TIM. 2:2

Law 21 of 21

The Law of Legacy

What a leader builds is measured by what keeps going after he's gone.

From Maxwell’s book

Everyone leaves a legacy; the question is whether you choose it. Maxwell describes four levels: achievement (you do it yourself), success (you lead followers), significance (you develop leaders) and legacy (the leaders you built carry on without you).

In the book: Roberto Goizueta prepared Coca-Cola so well that it kept running strong after his death.

The story · 2 Kings 2:1-15

Elijah's cloak

Elijah spent his last years training Elisha. On the final day Elisha would not leave his side and asked for a double portion of his spirit. When Elijah was taken, Elisha picked up his cloak and carried on the work.

“Please let there be a double portion of your spirit on me.”

2 Kings 2:9 · ESV
LEGACY IS MEASURED BY SUCCESSIONThe next generationmight know themPS. 78:6Their childrenwere taught themPS. 78:5The fatherstold the works of GodPS. 78:4-5Childrenyet unbornwho will telltheir childrenPS. 78:6-7FOUR LEVELSAchievementyou do it yourselfSuccessyou lead followersSignificanceyou develop leadersLegacyyour leaders carry onElijah's cloak fell, and Elisha took it up and carried on the work.2 KINGS 2:13

“Whoever would be great among you must be your servant.”

Mark 10:43 · ESV